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How do I get myself out of this emotional turmoil?

How do i end this emotional turmoil? with feelings I have for a coworker. This coworker and I have been doing intimate(sexual things). Although, never had intercourse. We are not in a relationship, though I have deep feelings for him. He has a gf overseas.I also see him flirting with another girl who works at the office and I instantly get jealous. How do I get myself out of this emotional turmoil?

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cut him off completely. it can be hard but he already has a girl and he's flirting with other girls. how faithful can he possibly be? don't get involved with him unless you plan on getting hurt. stay away!
you have to stop doing intimate things and tell him hes a pig
fight the girl
thats not good. Well go out with your friends, get your mind off him!!!!!! DATE OTHER PEOPLE!!! go party! he sounds like a douche who is just using you. Don't let him see you hurt or affected by this. BECOME A MANEATER! soon you will realize he wans't worth your time, and the emotion and pain will be gone. Time cures pain. But You just need to put the effort into forgetting! If you dont you will always be stuck in the same place and that isnt fair for you.
Wow. I don't know how practical it would be to change jobs. Since it probably isn't, think about this: If he was actually available, i.e., he didn't have a girlfriend, would you honestly want him for a boyfriend?? He has a girlfriend, yet he still not only fools around with you, but he also flirts with another girl you work with. This is unhealthy and messed up on many levels. You don't want to be involved with someone like this. I really really hope you think hard about this one and realize you deserve better. Go out and get involved with another group of people - people who share a hobby you like, ANYTHING! - and maybe (hopefully) you will meet someone there who will get your mind off of that loser.
Well, I hate to say it but unless you think you can get over him and still see him every day, you may need to find another job. As bad as it sucks that you would have to find something else, I'm sure he won't. It seems pretty obvious that he is not going to start a relationship with you and if he did you would have to ask yourself if you would you even want one. He has a gf and flirts with other girls. I am sorry you are going through this, I am sure it is hell!